Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Linkie link link!

I know no one relies on me for their interesting links of the day, but I really miss sharing links with people and getting to have occasional discussions. And I happen to have come across quite a few articles already this week that were just really good. So. In lieu of facebook sharing and discussions, and rather than inundating everyone with my typical once-a-week facebook link vomit, here we are.

A. First up, The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt. I noticed this on Netflix a few days ago, but didn't pay attention to it because I mostly go to Netflix to rewatch episodes of TV shows I've already seen before, since that's how I roll. Plus I'm wary of new shows these days and what might be in them. But over the last couple of days, I saw multiple mentions of it in various places and by various people, including unlikely places, which worked together to pique my interest. So last night I was trying to find something by which to knit, and decided to check it out. And boy, is it fairly delightful. If you have a chance, I recommend it. (I mean, if you enjoy things that are funny.) Oh, and also, it got me hooked really early on by including a parody of Antoine Dodson's news interview, aka the Bed Intruder Song:



2. Up next we have an article by George Weigel, A Mission of Love. It is so good. Nothing groundbreaking, obviously, but just so good and so true. I mean, like, this:
In light of all this, the Christian idea of chastity comes into clearer focus. In the Catholic view of things, chastity is not a dreary string of prohibitions but a matter of loving-with-integrity: loving rather than “using;” loving another for himself or herself. The sexual temptations to which the Church says “No” are the implications of a higher, nobler, more compelling “Yes:” yes to the integrity of love, yes to love understood as the gift of oneself to another, yes to the family as the fruit of love, and yes to the family as the school where we first learn to love. “Yes” is the basic Catholic stance toward sexuality, marriage and the family. We should witness to that “Yes” with a joyful heart, recognizing that the example of joyful Catholic families is the best gift we can offer a world marked today by the glorification of self-absorption.
I just wish I could share this stuff with more people. In that article he mentions a mini-catechism that was put out by the Archdiocese of Philadelphia and the Pontifical Council for the Family, and man. Do you know how much I wish I could take that or something similar and use it in some sort of church program, like a marriage-prep program for non-engaged people? I really think that one of the biggest problems we have with marriage these days is that people don't think about what marriage means until they've already stepped on the marriage moving sidewalk and gotten engaged, after which point it's significantly more difficult to switch paths. Not impossible, but I'd say the majority of people who get engaged are pretty set on getting married regardless of what problems might come up in marriage prep (assuming, you know, they even do marriage prep). And a lot of those who do, at least on the Catholic side of things, are doing it just to fill a requirement. I might be jaded about that, but from things I've heard, that's the impression I get. And considering the number of divorces - even among Catholics - it certainly doesn't seem like the truths of what marriage is sink in very deep in a lot of couples. (This isn't to say, obviously, that good marriage prep or a solid foundation on what marriage means and entails immunizes people from divorce. But I think it certainly helps inoculates to a degree.) Anyway. It's a pipe dream I have to work on that. Maybe someday. Starting with reading that book myself might not hurt, though.

Semi-related: Faith formation for parents/adults. It's not enough to focus on teaching at kids who get next to nothing (if that) at home. I wish I could get more involved in adult faith formation, because while it's very important to win over to Christ the hearts of the youth, if they don't see it practiced by their elders it'll be easy to become disillusioned or lose sight of its importance. The author of the first article has a few suggestions here, thankfully. But figuring out what works in each individual parish isn't necessarily simple, and takes a lot of work and logistics - and desire.

D. Lastly, for this round anyway, let's talk a little bit about beauty, shall we? Bishop Conley wrote a beautiful piece in First Things that you should just please, please read.
Christianity is not Moralistic Therapeutic Deism. Christianity is the faith of unmerited greatness—the faith of heroic virtue, unsurpassed hope, and unbounded charity. The Christian life elevates humanity in the great sanctifying process of theosis. By our very baptism, in fact, we are given the capacity to love precisely as God loves. And at the core of the Christian life is a transformative religious relationship with a living person—Jesus Christ.

The mission of the New Evangelization is to proclaim the living person of Jesus Christ to those for whom God is a benevolent, impersonal, and mostly impotent figure.
 He goes on to talk about beauty as a pathway to Christ, and how "Pope Francis says that the pathway to Christ is the “via pulchritudinis.” Beauty responds to the flat-souled, reductive culture in which we live. Pope Benedict wrote often that beauty is an arrow that wounds—by that, he meant that it penetrates hearts which might never be turned by reason or virtue."

It's just a great piece to read, so you should do that. And then go find something beautiful at which you can wonder. And go for a walk, because most of us could use more walks in our lives.


Coming up next: SILENCE. Yes. It will be good.

Sunday, March 08, 2015

Great, full.

February 23 - Today I was thankful, as I very often am, for my fantastically wonderful parents who are entirely too good for me. They are just beyond-words fantastic. I am also thankful for my dad giving up some of his airline miles to get me a ticket to go to a friend's wedding so I'd only have to buy the return ticket. And I'm thankful that he was able to get me a window seat IN AN EXIT ROW. Awesome. (My return flight is less awesome, on a less-awesome airline, but oh well.) Also, this means yay for seeing friends!

February 24- Split pea soup. Yummy yummy soup. Sodalicious. (And grateful for the hands that made it. Which are, by the way, not mine.) Also thankful today for Gilmore Girls, a show with some morally questionable characters (which describes most shows, really), which I just quite enjoy watching.

February 25 - Some days it's hard to come up with things. Today the best I could do is being thankful for having a home, and for having an SUV that can handle piles of snow. Oh. Also, for Parks and Recreation, another awesome show, which just ended for good. Sadly. But yay reruns.

February 26 - Thankful for an unexpected free night at home thanks to choir being canceled - and because of that and the snow delay (for most everyone else in the ministry, anyway), I got in two hours of overtime today. That's always nice.

February 27 - Thankful (so thankful!) for finishing the sewing of all 25 squares of the cute baby blanket I made for a coworker's daughter('s unborn daughter). I thought it'd be awful but it was surprisingly not terrible, and each square I finished was super satisfying.


February 28 - I finally got new socks for the first time in a really long time. No more putting up with holey socks! Also, we finally got sunshine today. Lots of sunshine. Yay sunshine.

March 1 - It's March! We had family celebration time to celebrate my SIL's birthday, and it was lovely. And also thankful for Nutmeg, as always, who is just so sweetly Nutmeg, as usual.

March 2 - Thankful for chiropractors, and schedulers/managers at work who didn't mind me taking 1.5 hrs of sick time to go attend to my spine after a spill on the ice this morning. And thankful for a new appreciation of what old people have to deal with all the time.

March 3 - Very grateful for my good health and immune system. Also, for movie scores. Sometimes I forget about how awesome they are, but then I remember, and it's great.

March 4 - Today is Grammar Day! Best holiday, probably. And today I'm thankful for my fun new travel mug - it's smaller (which means consuming less coffee, which I need to do lately), it's purple, and the only downside is the body isn't dishwasher-friendly, but because it's smaller than my ridiculously big non-painted stainless steel one, it's not very hard to wash by hand. And it's pretty. Purple! Also, grateful for the book On the Shoulders of Hobbits, which I get to read in little chunks here and there. Nothing earth-shattering so far, but it's an enjoyable, uplifting read. Oooh, and, the snow that had been falling most of the day finally cleared by bedtime, and the full moon was out, and it was so sparkly and everything was untouched and it was so beautiful. The embodiment of that line in Twas the Night Before Christmas. (Which, of course, we very rarely actually get at Christmas, perfectly like that.)

March 5 - Thankful for the fluffy, sparkly snow this morning - and the sun that made it extra pretty. Thankful for the sun that's still above the mountains and it's 5:04pm as I'm writing this. Thankful for a result on a stupid quiz about how you best pray that tells me I should go to Eucharistic adoration more often - because YES. And, once again, later on, thankful for a nighttime walk on a perfect night - the full moon on still pretty fresh, mostly untouched snow (at least, untouched in the fields, etc), and perfectly crisp, cool air - but not terribly bitingly cold. Just lovely.

March 6 - Thankful for various Catholicky things.

March 7 - Scraping the bottom of the barrel today...thankful for sleeping in, and a morning with the house to myself. Also grateful for God's grace.

March 8 - Grateful for my family, and for celebrating my nephew who turns 10 tomorrow, and a number of various uplifting articles, and videos, and good things, and church, and people, and stuff. So. Yeah. Things are good. I mean, a lot of things are terrible, but God is good, even when he's more or less incomprehensible.

And this commercial is great:


And so is this one, and so pro-life!


That's enough for now.